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Pension Settlement Advice

If the Pension in your divorce was under-valued you will have lost thousands of pounds. Divorce Lifeline check this for you at no cost - and if you have a claim it DOES NOT involve your former spouse at all.

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About Divorce

Obtaining a divorce can be straightforward if both parties agree that the marriage is over. However, difficulties can arise in resolving how and when to separate, where to live, and the arrangements for children and finances.

The only grounds for divorce are that your marriage has irretrievably broken down and one of five 'facts' must be proved:

(1)adultery
(2)unreasonable behaviour
(3)desertion for at least two years
(4)separation for at least two years with consent
(5)separation for over five years (consent not required)

If one of the five facts applies, what happens next?
It is often sensible to try to obtain your partner's consent to the divorce and try to reach agreement over the contents of the petition. Only a brief outline of circumstances needs to be given at this stage.

What about the children?
A form is also sent to the court with the divorce petition which will outline the arrangements for your children. The law encourages couples to try to agree those arrangements. Divorce proceedings still continue if no agreement is reached.

How long does the divorce process take?
The divorce takes approximately four-six months although the Decree Absolute is often not obtained until the finances are resolved. This may be much later.

Click for the procedure to issue divorce proceedings.

(All information courtesy of Blake Lapthorn Tarlo Lyons)

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Advice Now.org

Advicenow is an independent, not-for-profit website providing accurate, up-to-date information on many rights and legal issues including divorce

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Armchair Advice

Armchair Advice includes tools to assess the strength of your relationship; guidance and practical strategies to help you improve it; financial, emotional advice and divorce law, if you decide to end your relationship or marriage; and helpful tips on starting afresh.

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Citizens Advice Bureau

Help and Advice for all aspects of everyday life - money, health, education, legal system: anything you might need extra help with whilst going through a divorce.

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Direct Gov

Advice re. relationship breakdown and your children, solicitors, courts, child’s welfare during court proceedings and getting a divorce

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Divorce Aid

An independent group of professionals providing divorce advice, support and information.

Started in 1999, Divorce Aid now helps thousands of people across the UK and internationally every week.
Their motto is: 'Whatever your situation and wherever you are, we hope to provide divorce advice, support and information on any matter concerning you.'
The welfare of any child involved is paramount and they promote mediation and counselling as well as good, professional legal advice. They also promote collaborative family law as a new dignified approach to divorce.

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On Divorce.co.uk

Full of information and useful advice and links – set up by a divorced accountant who did a lot of research and has found information and internet sites that helped him.

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The Pensions Advisory Service

If you are going through a divorce and you and your ex-spouse are looking at dividing up your assets, the Court is required to take your pension rights into account.

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Deedpoll

Upon divorce, many women want to revert to their maiden name.

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Divorce Recovery Workshop

Divorce Recovery Workshop is a self-help course that will help you deal with
the emotional trauma of a relationship that has broken down.

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Family Mediation Council

The FMC is dedicated to working to promote best practice in family mediation

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Family Mediation Helpline

The Family Mediation Helpline is staffed by specially trained operators who provide:
• general information on family mediation;
• advice on whether your case may be suitable for mediation;
• information about eligibility for public funding, and;
• contact details for mediation services in your local area.

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Family Mediators Association

Family mediation is a voluntary process by which couples in dispute, particularly those going through separation or divorce, are helped to deal with arrangements for their future.

Many couples prefer to negotiate their own private arrangements with the assistance of a family mediator rather than put their decisions in the hands of the courts.

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National Family Mediation

NFM is a network of local not-for-profit Family Mediation Services in England and Wales which offers help to couples, married or unmarried, who are in the process of separation and divorce.

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Relate

Relate offers advice, relationship counselling, sex therapy, workshops, mediation, consultations and support face-to-face, by phone and through their website.

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Resolution

Resolution’s 5000 members are family lawyers committed to the constructive resolution of family disputes

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Scottish Marriage Care

A registered charity and voluntary organisation, SMC provide a specialist professional counselling service to the whole community, delivered in rural and urban locations throughout Scotland.
SMC relationship counselling services are available to couples or individuals who are married, living together, living apart, divorced or separated.

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UK College of Family Mediators

The UK College of Family Mediators - established in 1996 - sets standards for family mediation and maintains a register of family mediator members who meet those standards; it works to promote best practice in family mediation.
Their website has a Find A Mediator facility.

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Child Support Agency

Agency set up to make sure parents who live apart from their children contribute financially to their upkeep by paying child maintenance.

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Families Need Fathers

Families Need Fathers is a registered UK charity which provides information and support to parents, including unmarried parents, of either sex. FNF is chiefly concerned with the problems of maintaining a child's relationship with both parents during and after family breakdown
Families Need Fathers is firstly a social care organisation, concerned with a particular area of child welfare

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NCDS

The National Council for the Divorced & Separated.
NCDS Phoenix branches provide a safe environment for you to go out and socialise with others in a similar position as yourself and help you to make new friends. It can be difficult to go out and meet new people and trying to start again after a divorce

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Separated Dads

SeparatedDads was formed to offer a unique reference point on being away from or separated from your children

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CAFCASS

Putting children first in Family courts
Cafcass champions the interests of children involved in family proceedings, advising the family courts in England on what it considers to be in the best interests of individual children.

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Child Support Agency

Agency set up to make sure parents who live apart from their children contribute financially to their upkeep by paying child maintenance.

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Childline

Helpline for children - Calls to ChildLine are confidential

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Connexions Direct

Website for 13-19 yr olds

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Gingerbread / One Parent Families

One Parent Families / Gingerbread is an independent charity working to promote the interests and welfare of lone parents and their children.

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It’s Not Your Fault

Are you worried your parents are splitting up? If so, this website is to help you understand and feel a bit better.

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National Association of Child Contact Centres

A Child Contact Centre is a safe, friendly and neutral place where children of separated families can spend time with one or both parents and sometimes other family members. They are child-centred environments that provide toys, games and facilities that reflect the diverse needs of children affected by family breakdown.

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Only Dads - Single Parenting

If you have recently become a single parent or if you have been one for years, or indeed you are on the verge of separating, you will find this a useful resource.

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Only Mums - Single Parenting

OnlyMums, working in partnership with professionals nationwide, gives practical, comprehensive and up-to-date information to support you through seperation and divorce.

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Stepfamily Scotland

Stepfamily Scotland understands the problems that stepfamilies face. If you are in a stepfamily already, or about to become part of one, Stepfamily Scotland can provide helpful advice and support.

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The Hideout

Site for children who witness domestic violence at home

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Direct Gov

Advice on family matters arising out of separation and divorce.

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Families Need Fathers

Families Need Fathers is a registered UK charity which provides information and support to parents, including unmarried parents, of either sex. FNF is chiefly concerned with the problems of maintaining a child's relationship with both parents during and after family breakdown

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Family Mediation Helpline

The Family Mediation Helpline is staffed by specially trained operators who provide:
• general information on family mediation;
• advice on whether your case may be suitable for mediation;
• information about eligibility for public funding, and;
• contact details for mediation services in your local area.

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Family Mediators Association

Many couples prefer to negotiate their own private arrangements with the assistance of a family mediator rather than put their decisions in the hands of the courts.
Family mediation is a voluntary process by which couples in dispute, particularly those going through separation or divorce, are helped to deal with arrangements for their future.

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National Family Mediation

NFM is a network of local not-for-profit Family Mediation Services in England and Wales which offers help to couples, married or unmarried, who are in the process of separation and divorce.

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One Parent Families / Gingerbread

One Parent Families/Gingerbread is an independent charity working to promote the interests and welfare of lone parents and their children.

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ParentlinePlus

Site with helpful advice for parents

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Separated Dads

SeparatedDads was formed to offer a unique reference point on being away from or separated from one's children

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Stepfamily Scotland

If you are in a stepfamily already, or about to become part of one, Stepfamily Scotland can provide helpful advice and support.

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Her Majestys Court Service

Website with useful information

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Procedure - Begin Divorce Proceedings

Click for useful guide to the procedure for starting divorce proceedings.

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Procedure - Financial Provisions

Click for useful guide to the procedure for obtaining financial provisions during divorce proceedings.

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Quickie Divorce

Essential documentation, advice and support

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St Mary's Church
Leigh, Kent
Vicar: Rev'd Lionel Kevis
01732 833022

Coffee Stop
Meet up with friends and make new ones over coffee. 10.00 - 11.30 am every Wednesday in the Genner Room, St Marys Church, Leigh.
Tea and cake also available.

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